By the way, do you know what is A Passive Aggresive Person ?. I think this is a bad behavior who is done by our patner to us for relationship.
if you feel having a patner who is experiencing the behavior like this, I very recommend you to be careful to face him.
according to the trusted source that I read, a passive aggresive person usually make you feeling emotionally drained, dejected, and distressed.
So how can you know that your patner get a passive aggresive, by the way. it’s good answer, as I know some of the passive aggresive people has the signs and the characteristic usually exhibit symptom of personalities like these
- your patner will procrastinate, leave work undone, or “forget” to fulfill his share of tasks.
- when asked about his problems, this person will make excuses or blame others.
- he may be more prone to cheating in a long-term relationship or marriage.
- he may deny his behavior or claim has has good intentions.
- he denies his emotions and has a lack of commitment.
- he instigates arguments for any reason.
And you can also see the passive aggresive person from sides of his characteristic, instead of. it’s so important to know for you if you want to know more about your patner who may be get characteristic like these:
- unexpected, unprovoked outbursts that are disproportionate to the issue.
- isolation or pouting, or retreating into his world.
- he is oblivious to your feelings.
- ignoring or blocking you from communication.
- being sensitive and caring in one minute, acting aggressive the next.
by the way these behaviors is not only making you confuse but these capable of damaging your confidence and self-esteem or may be worse. Besides, the passive aggresive people
behaviors also may take its toll on you if you do nothing at first for your patners.
How Can I Overcome The Passive Agressive Person ?
some people say, ” just leave the guy?” it’s maybe very easy solution, if there are some of people or your friends has said like that. But not if you are still in love with this guy. in the fact they are not in your position, and they can’t give you the best solution or guidance objectively.
So if you want to keep to continue your relationship, you must need to have position!. that meant is that you have to take control your relationship today. I mean how we can do.
you must learn how to deal wth passive aggresive people and make a break from the passive agressive agressive so they can’t torment your relationships anymore, this is the best way to resolve your problems.
Or use the another ways, you can use this, I refered it with “Recovering from Passive Aggression“.
this e-book explains the intricate dance involved in living or working with a passive aggresive person and offers useful solution to dealing with difficult situations as they arise.
by this, you will guided through positive conflict management strategies that are applicable your current situation.
Besides, you will be offered tips for adjusting the influence your patners has in relationship and many more.
Note: if you don’t want to leave your patner and want to stay in with him, the Recovering From Passive Aggression is a must have for you to keep your relationship. I guarantees 100% after you try this on your life will be changing dramatically, you no need to be worry anymore with the passive aggresive person, because anything you need has been discussed through this one by the relationship guru who has been focused to increase the quality of love-based relationship experiences for more than 20 years.